Work with Me

Self-abandonment stops here.

The safety, skills, and support for your vibrant next chapter starts now.

When you step into this work…

You’re making the choice to live fully alive.

This means, you’re saying no more, to:


❌ shame and fear blocking you from the things you secretly long for

❌ ignoring your body’s wisdom and inner authority at the cost of your wellbeing

❌ existing in chronic overwhelm, overfunctioning and resentment, making it impossible to truly relax and receive joy and pleasure

❌ apologising for your body, age, emotional depth and sensitivity, and what you need and want to feel vibrant this one precious life you’ve been given

❌ tolerating empty, coercive and emotionally unavailable relationships; preventing you from feeling safe to be seen, heard or received in the fullness of you


You’re saying YES to unlearning old survival patterns and building new embodied skills, to:

⚡️Feel more safe and free in your body

⚡️Make choices that are truly authentic to you

⚡️Express yourself with grounded confidence

⚡️Live in more flow with your emotional world

⚡️Trust your embodied wisdom to guide you 

⚡️Experience more lightness, play and creativity

⚡️Delight in meaningful intimacy and quality sex

⚡️Live with purpose and joyful alignment

after decades of giving to everyone else, this is YOUR comeback era.

And in case you’re thinking it - as a woman juggling many roles and responsibilities, prioritising what makes YOU feel alive is not selfish or indulgent.

All the “success” in the world won’t mean a thing if you’re feeling out of place, burnt out and disconnected from pleasure (especially if you have kids watching your every move).

Investing in your individual embodied erotic wellbeing is not only an investment in the the quality of your health and relationships and your capacity to FEEL GOOD in midlife and beyond; but also in the collective healing of the women who came before you, and the girls who are learning what they’re worthy of, right now.

After a decade supporting women as a somatic coach, therapist and educator, and having arisen with more peace, joy and fulfilment from the ashes of a midlife initiation that would make your eyes water…

I'm the wing woman of your midlife dreams.

My own midlife revival has seen me enlist a mixed bag of therapists, coaches and teachers that helped me build the internal strength, capacity and skills to move through a number of major midlife hurdles.

Yet, what I wish I had 5 years ago, was a trusted guide to walk with me as I navigated my path. Holding me without judgment as I untangled the complexity of my struggles. Supporting me to shed and grieve the roles and identities that no longer fit, and helping me to reconnect to my vibrant lifeforce, so I could take empowered action towards the life I desired.

  • Lauren Prideaux

    Given the current dynamic I’m experiencing - coming out, navigating kids, separation, business and queerness… Kate is the perfect fit as her coaching brings the whole body on board, and nothing feels off limits

  • Lisa Whiting

    Working with Kate was deeply validating and transformative. I felt seen as a whole woman - not a problem or something to solve. And that’s rare.

Ready to Roar?

Here's what's on offer…

EroSoma Embodied Movement

Online and in-person group classes, programs and immersives designed to help you return to safety and reclaim your lifeforce, through a guided journey in somatic movement and freeform dance.

Private 1-1 Somatic Coaching Program

My high touch, personalised Roar Truth to Power program is a “line in the sand” declaration to your midlife becoming and there’s nothing else out there like it.

Somatic Sex Coaching

You deserve a relationship to sex and intimacy that feels safe, embodied and genuinely alive.

These private sessions offer specialised somatic support to reclaim pleasure and agency on your own terms - through gentle, nervous system-led work that meets you exactly where you are, and honours everything your body has been through.

Private Mentoring & Supervision for Somatic Practitioners

Informed by a decade of professional experience as a therapist, coach, mentor and educator in the field of embodiment and somatics, I offer customised mentoring and support for practitioners looking to expand trauma-informed somatic skills, build out or refine their unique body of work and deepen self-confidence in their professional mastery

If you’re interested in connecting with me to arrange private or small group mentoring and/or supervision, please reach out for more information.

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Your body needs both safety and pleasure to heal.

Did you know that your wise body can practice feeling safe and feeling good at the same time?

Building your body’s sense of internal safety as you relearn connection to your pleasure and aliveness, is a powerful recipe for creating the self-trust and freedom you crave.

You no longer have to suffer the excruciating experience of being frozen in place, not feeling clear or resourced enough to make change on your own.

It only takes one step to start and I promise you - it’s worth it.